While in theory, I know that life is all about how you react and respond to what comes your way, it is another thing entirely to put it into practice. Having children really puts that to the test.

My kids, now young adults, can still push every button I have. I am (continuously) learning and practicing new skills in an effort to maintain and deepen an honest and loving relationship. Some days are easier than others! And of course, they are not the only ones who can push those hot buttons. So everything I learn (or am taught) can be used with everyone who comes into my life.

I have also learned from my children that I send many messages — sometimes without saying a word — about how I see myself and my world. It was a little frightening to see how some of their negative attitudes about themselves and life developed from watching me.

So, I am a work in progress, trying to stay open to the wisdom that is all around. Even that of my children, who think they know everything. Well, they certainly know more than I sometimes give them credit for.